If you're googling "how to know when you need marriage counseling..."

It may be time to have professional help.

Do you know why triangles are widely used in engineering for their stability and strength? Well it turns out, couple's counseling isn't much different...The presence of a therapist stabilizes the rocky dynamics present in a two member system and slows down the process giving you the opportunity to engage with one another with new perspectives and tools. I can assist you in quickly naming what you're seeking and the obstacles we have to work with to make that wish happen.

A lot goes on in life and couples need a space to prioritize the relationship they wish to grow old with. It's my belief that bettering your relationship with your spouse will improve almost every other area of your life. But I won't decide what happens to your relationship, that part will be up to you.

They say relationships take work. What is the work? It's choosing to love oneself and other in the same moment, minute by minute. To remain in full-respect living of self and others in both times of harmony and disharmony. If you're thinking "that sounds so simple, why can't I do that?". That's exactly what we'll work to untangle.

I have extensive training in both Relational Life Therapy as well as Gottman Method Couple's Therapy and utilize both in my work my couples with the focus being framework from RLT. I continue to work closely with, and consult with the Director of Training for the Relational Life Institute. Read more here about me and my approach to therapy. For questions about the process of therapy and rates, please see our FAQ page.

I offer free 20 minute consultations for both you and I to assess for whether we'd be a good fit.